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female
age
16-17,
anonymous
writes:my friend had always liked my boyfriend even before he was my boyfriend. there had been moments when she tried flirting with him. but since he doesnt like her, he didn't play along. even though she said she didnt like him anymore, i always caught her smiling to herself whenever he'd joke around or hug her. i've also noticed that they talk together more than my boyfriend talks to me. so, whenever i'm standing there next to him and her, they'd just single me out and talk about their many inside jokes. so i decided to break it off...and i'm still deciding right now. but that friend of mine..suddenly turns all nice and starts telling me that I SHOULD break it off and that i should ignore him and how much of a big asshole he is and how much she cares about me. she's basically a hypocrite. she's also telling me that he never liked me and that he's indifferent towards our relationship. just a whole bunch of shit.do you think i can trust her or is she saying all this on purpose?
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reader, pashanoodle  + ♥, writes (12 May 2008):
 I think you should trust your gut - your friend is not behaving like one and hasn't been for some time it seems. If you feel you want to be with the guy...get both of them in the same place and get some of the issues out in the open...actually say that you are concerned with your girlfriends flirtation given you are aware she has or has had feelings for your man, and how it makes you feel when the two of them talk/flirt.Ask him outright if he is interested in her - let him answer in front of her.
Then...talk about what she has been saying about his feelings about your r'ship....his reaction/hers will be very telling.
If you decide that you will stay with your guy after this - I would probably think twice about hanging out with that girlfriend...
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reader, growing  +, writes (11 May 2008):
 With whom you are more close to???
Friend or a boyfriend???
Decide first.
If its your boyfrd then tell him everything that she told you about him and just see his reaction.I don't think that you are that dumb in reading reactions.
If his side is clean then he will definitely talk to your frd in front of you and would ask for clarifications but if he is not,then he would probably say that you are kidding and will just show his cool side and continue same behaviour towards your friend.
Just try this out to make things clear.
Atleast to make clear is she your frd?
Just be sensible.
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reader, Twirly  + ♥, writes (11 May 2008):
 Honey I think you should forget about them both and move on, with friends like that who needs enemies? xx
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