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writes:Hi,Im a lesbian. A happy lesbian!! Im single and i have just got over a long long, eight years worth of unreqited love obsession!! Who also might i add got married this year! Now I have a huge problem of falling for my best friend. But how do i know she isn't a lesbian? Or is? I come back from holiday a few weeks ago. I have had feelings for my friend before but never anything serious, just a 'you're fit!' When i came back i had this guy i work with tell me he loved me and i turned him down, my friend was the only person who knew all this and i work with her too. But the last week all i can think about is her. It is affecting my work and when we are on lunch together i am all quiet. Usually i am loud and bubbly but im not even eating and thats saying something! Trouble is she does have a boyfriend and he is a nice guy that makes her happy sometimes even tho he was a total shit and cheated on her with a few girls last year. I was there for her as you would be and we become beter friends. I mean when we first met we hated each other. She keeps asking me whats wrong but i cant say anything. I know she is my friend but she doesnt no im a lesbian and i cant tel her because everyone else i have told has been a total shithead to me!!! Now i find it hard to trust people. She is awesome. I didnt notice i had feelings until a week ago and its taking it toll. She keeps getting so close to me and always wants to spend time with me, just us. We try to spend time together, she shoves me in the cupboard and tells me to keep quiet so no one will know were in there. Any hidey place at work and we know it!!! She might be being friendly but help me out....is she a lesbian or am i reading too much into it???? She gets so jealous too, like i have started talking to this other chic at work and she tells me three is a crowd and i have to watch my back because this other girl cant be trusted. Now i just need to get over her before i really hack into her, any ideas plz..... thx xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): lol clearly she likes you, just ask her straight out. If she says something witty say sumthing witty back. If she's flirting with you, why not flirt back. The best thing to do is ask or at least tell her how you feel. If you really like her u wont want to keep lying to her. If shes good enough friend, shell stick around and be fine with it... just remember, its the ones that stick around that are worth your time. Goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAll we do is laugh, talk and mess around in there. She touches my arm and gets really close to whisper in my ear, thats mainly it. She has been so close her perfume is a lingering smell in my nose!!! Hope this helps x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): Please explain what you mean with: "We try to spend time together, she shoves me in the cupboard and tells me to keep quiet so no one will know were in there. Any hidey place at work and we know it!!!". What do you do in the cupboard?
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