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Is my ex using me because I'm rich?

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Question - (29 August 2014) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2014)
A female Ghana age 22-25, anonymous writes:

i want to know if it's right for my ex to be asking me to buy credit for him? He keeps asking me to always give him money or gifts but he has never done same to be before. Im not sure that is how he relates to his female friends. He once told me he loves me. My question is, is he using me because he knows im rich? Will a guy who loves you be asking of credits always? Help me

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (30 August 2014):

Honeypie agony auntYes, he wants STUFF from you.

And no, a GUY who LOVES you and/or CARES for you would not ASK you for "stuff".

And I agree, if you want to see if he really DOES care, then STOP giving him anything. See if he sticks around.

He sounds like a "gold-digger" type.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2014):

"My question is, is he using me because he knows im rich?"

No, he's using you because he knows he can.

"Will a guy who loves you be asking of credits always?"

No, a guy who loves himself will tell a chick what she wants to hear to get what he wants.

A man can only take advantage of a woman who lets him, and a man can't disrespect a woman who respects herself.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (29 August 2014):

No, a guy who really likes you doesn't ask you for money.

Yes, the guy is doing his best to use you, and doesn't think you're very intelligent. He's just telling you what you want to hear.

Don't trust any guy who says he loves you, then asks you to give him money. Your age-group is listed between 18-21. Is that really true? You seem pretty naive or pretty sheltered, to be asking such a question. That should be obvious.

If you really want to know how much he loves you? Don't give him any money or gifts. If he gets angry, and/or leaves? There's your answer.

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A female reader, SeaGreen Canada +, writes (29 August 2014):

SeaGreen agony auntHe's your ex!! Why are you even giving him money?

Of course he is using you. Guys won't do that to those they love. Cut the contact with him and move on.

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