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Is my ex trying to tell me he is gay but won't come right out and say it?

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Question - (12 October 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2012)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

This morning I received a text from my ex of a man giving another guy a blowjob and for one split second my mind went blank. I am saying to myself I have kids by this man and he turns around and sends me this picture of two men in a sexual act. I don't know what he wanted me to say I just deleted it and act as if I didn't see it.Don't get me wrong I am not against who or what people do this is a free country. All I want to know is is my kids father gayand if he is regardless I would still love him he is only human and we all are in titled to do as we please.

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A female reader, oldbag United Kingdom +, writes (12 October 2012):

oldbag agony auntHi

If you need to know, ask him

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 October 2012):

eyeswideopen agony auntGay/Straight/Bi who cares, just as long as those child support checks keep rollin' in.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (12 October 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntIt's possible he sent it to you in error.

just because a man looks at gay porn does not make him gay.

if you would still love him

if he's your ex

if it does not matter if he is gay or not why do you care?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2012):

That's totally weird and random I would have responded ASAP with "WTF??" No I don't think he's gay and trying to tell you. Maybe it was supposed to be funny but the humor got lost in the text? IDK its just strange.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2012):

He could be trying to tell you something then again he could just be messing with you..

It's hard as I don't know him like you do.. Has there been anything from his past that may account for this behaviour .. Anything you can think of ...

I'd wait it out for now and see what he does next..

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