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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex has just been confiding in me telling me he feels insure and no confidence in himself. He always wants me to say hi to my mum from him, and he wants to take our daughter down to see her, why do u think he still wants to say in contact with my mum?Do you think his trying to get back in with my mum to get back with me?.He left me for someone else, his told me he don't trust his current girlfriend, we have only been split up for about 3months now, we were together for 1yr and we have a 8month old baby, i was really really reallysuprised he told me about his troubles.The other day he took our daughter to see one off his friends, and promised me that it wasn't taking her to meet his GF, when i have said that before, he hasn't borthered to reassure me before, but this time he has been, and even gave me his friend number to call if i didn't belive him. Its like his trying to make a effort now, so i can re-trust him again.We both told each other Satuarday night that we do still care about each other.His starting to tell me whats going on in his life, something he wouldn't do when we split up.Do u think his just being friendly or do you think theres more to it?Because its none off this business lets be friendly for the sake off our baby, because we are friends.
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reader, faith scott boreanaz +, writes (4 September 2007):
 It sounds like he wants to get back WITH you, not at you. he seems to have won your trust and maybe his using your mum as a contact to stay in touch with you and your daughter. Overall i get the feeling he wants to be with you again so he's in a difficult situation, his in one relationship but then he's got feelings for you and your the mother of his child. his probably feeling very confused, the best you can do is listen to his troubles and be there for him.
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