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Is my ex just using me to pass time?

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Question - (8 August 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi my ex has been ringing me alot over this past week and a half, and being really friendly. It was me that would always contact him 1st, but i have stoped now, he always rings me in the morning and rings me quite a few times in the day. He rang me Sat ,Sun , Mon , tues and wed. And he keeps asking my opinion on things, surley thats what your girl is there for. Even though you don't get to see your partner surley you keep in contact over the phone, he said she hasn't called.

He just told me that his girlfriend has been really busy off late. And he will be seeing her soon. They have been together 3 months, I thought this was the stage were u want to spend alot off time with your new partner.

Do u think his using me to past the time with untill he sees his girl again. And do u think I shouldn't be too friendly with him. And just keep the phone calls to a small amount and just talk about the our baby.

His also been talking about taking our baby swimming and said we should make a day off it.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom + , writes (8 August 2007):

hlskitten agony auntHi

He could well be using you to pass the time. If shes busy.

Depends what he has been used to. Some people like to be txting or calling people throughout the day, maybe her job doesnt allow that.

I wouldnt like it if i was you.

Distance yourself from him. If he wants to take the baby swimming thats fine, i dont see why you should have to go with him.

C xxxxxxx

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