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Is my cousin bi curious or just awkward around me because I am a lesbian?

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Question - (16 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi i am female 18 years old and also a lesbian, i just got back in contact with my cousin who is also female but tells me she is not a lesbian, she has been acting very weird around me. its sort of like she's trying to tell me she fancies me, i am really confused and have no idea how to approach her, i have showed a friend and her mum a couple of video clips on my phone and they seem to think she is acting strange... could you please give me some advice on what to say to her or just what to do please? i just have no idea what to do if she confirms to me that she does like me in more ways than a cousin :-/

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A female reader, Cyg79 United States +, writes (16 December 2007):

Cyg79 agony auntBe strait up with her. Ask her what's up. Then be prepared for the possible answers. Have your feelings worked out on the possibility's. I'm not sure about you, but if it were me and my cousin told me they liked me i would say, "I'm flattered but your my cousin and I will always love you as such, I mean we come from the same gene pool so how could I not." You need to decided on how you feel about the stuff she has been doing and then let her know how that makes you feel. I wish you the best of luck, its never easy dealing with feelings, but it does make life interesting. You sound like you have a good heart, I'm sure it will lead you right.

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (16 December 2007):

starfairy agony auntShe might not know how to act around you. Some people act like this around people who are gay, or have disabilities etc. They try so hard to act normal they act abnormal.

You should just have a chat with her, ask her is eberythings ok, that you've noticed her acting strangely around you.

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