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Is my best friend bi, should I tell him I find him attractive?

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Question - (18 February 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am 17 now and have had this best friend that im very close with. and resently my feelings for him have grown. so i ask him a few simple test questions to see if he might be bi or at least willing to try, and two questions i had asked were: 1. " WOULD YOU EVER HAVE A THREESOME WITH ANOTHER DUDE AND A CHICK?" his answer suprized me when he sayd " YES " so curiously i asked him another: 2. " WOULD YOU DO A THREESOME WITH ME AND ANOTHER GIRL?" Suprized, he sayed YES again.Time carried on and i had left the questions alone because no one knows of my sexuality, a few days had passed and in class ( i have 3 of 6classez with him btw.) one day he randomly brings up the question i asked him and asks me with excitement when we were going to have the threesome. The question knocks me off focus for a bit but calmly i tell him wenever hes down, and in reply he tells me hes down for wenever lol.. So my question is.. SOULD I HAVE A THREESOME WITH MY BEST FRIEND THAT DOSEN'T KNOW IM AND ATTRACTED TO HIM? and IS HE BI BUT DOESN'T WANT TO SAY IT LIKE MYSELF?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

I am 32 yo. When I was 19 I had a threesome with a chick and my best friend since the childhood. Both of us are 100% straight but we did it then because of the girl and the fun of it. We still remember that day until now with a lot of laughs. Maybe your friend is interested in the girl part only which is very possible. Be aware.

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (19 February 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony aunt

As Wh1t3r4bb1t suggests... if you're really best friends - only you really know whether or not you should really do this. If you truly value him and want to be his friend for a LONG time you need to consider it very carefully. It might completely back fire on you.

That said, maybe you should find out more from him like if he REALLY wants to or not... and get him to describe the kinds of things that HE might want to do while you two are doing this with a woman. Sounds like he might have watched some Bi videos or something (maybe you can even ask him if he has)... and what turned him on. Make sure YOU are able to reciprocate similar information or he may close down on you.

JMHO

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A male reader, ?StrangeGuy? United States +, writes (18 February 2010):

From one 17 year old guy in the closet to the other, i personally think u should try to go through with the threesome idea. then later on after that tell him ur sexuality and if his response is not negative then try to get to asking him if he would be willing to give u a try(no perversion attempted). if u don't then ur never going to feel complete. trust me i know how u feel with this. i'm also kind of going through the same exact thing. this is such a good question. i wish i could be more of a help but that's all i got right now. well good luck. my best wishes to ur situation!!! =)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2010):

Just because hes willing to have a threesome with you and a chick does mean hes bi or even courious But at the same time he might be courious and to go to twos up on a chick can be a hetro thing as seen in a lot of porn movies .But then you got to find a chick willing to do this some one you can trust and whos willing to get into a bisexual orgy you need to find out if this guys willing to get head from a chick and a dude during this sex sesion tell him it will make it more exciting and see how he reacts if the answers no then you got your answer

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A male reader, Wh1t3r4bb1t United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2010):

Wh1t3r4bb1t agony auntIf he's your best friend i'd imagine you'd know him best? but i would advise you not to go there in fear of possibly destroying the friendship but if you think its worth the risk sure go for it you never know what will happen afterall :)

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