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Is it worth that I chase after her for a date?

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Question - (31 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 November 2008)
A male Colombia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've recently started school again where I left off so I can graduate (I had to drop out for a bit for personal reasons). I've met a beautiful girl who flirts with me a lot, but I feel like she's more into my muscles then myself somtimes. She's the kinda girl who many men enjoy and she flirts around with a lot of them, but some people tell me she acts different with me then other the guy's. I've never seen her blush to a boy but when I told her bye one day with a flirtly voice she got shy and red.

Anyways, I've gradually fell in love with her. We don't really hang out together but I talk to her when the chance comes. I told her how I felt yesturday and asked her on a date for saturday. She said she was busy but I don't think it was excuses because she told me what she was busy with.

I was hoping today that she might warm up to me a bit or talk to me more then she did before in class since she knew now how I felt but she acts the same as before, somewhat flirty but i have to talk to her first, she almost never starts the conversation. I wanted to get a few minutes with her today to ask her on a date for sunday but I didn't get to see her alone. I just don't know if she's got any interest in me since I have such a hard time seeing her alone. Yet when I talk to her she doesn't seem like she minds how i feel and if I'm caught in a group of people with her and start talking to her, she puts all of her attention to me instead of anyone else.

So is it worth that I chase after her for a date for another weekend or is she just flirting and toying with me like she can do with many other boys?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (23 November 2008):

Ask her out - if she says yes then she is interested.

If she makes an excuse then you know she is just flirting and you shouldn't take her seriously.

Good Luck!! xx

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