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Is it wise for me to get involved on a serious level with this guy who has kids?

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Question - (28 July 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Help: Iam recenty dating a guy that has been split up from is girlfriend 3monts ago, they were together just over a year, he has two kids from 2 diffrent women, one is 6yrs old and the other has just turned 7months, the ex girlfriend is 30 but looks about 20.

We are boyfriend and girlfriend now. People in my area have warned me off him, but im not listing to them. He 44yrs old but looks about 25yrs old and is very very good looking, im only 23, i spoke to his ex girfriend she said he left her because he couldn't handle the fact she had post-natel depression. Do you think its wise for me to get invoved on a serious level, he has told me im the one and he wants to settle down with me have kids live aboard etc. I asked him if he loved the ex he said yes but not any-more. Also 2-3monts ago he and her use to do family things with his two kids, ive asked to stop doing that and he has...he does paint the ex out to be a cow and she has said nasty things to him, but he stil wants her in his life has a mate, even though they just speak on the phone.

Should i stay around has we both really like each other....

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A female reader, paula-d United Kingdom +, writes (29 July 2007):

I am a woman on the other side of the coin and i think its disgusting that you asked your current boyfriend to stop doing family things and i think its even more disgusting that he done it, obviously you do not have kids and i hope that one day when you do have kids that the same thing happens to you. Shame on you......

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