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writes:Hi,just ended two year relationship, he was nice first but soon As he knew I fell in love, he changed became a jerk, I broke up with a guy, to be with him, a six month relationship, now he was so different, he treated me so special, I didn't know how to take it, I've always ended up with jerks, I always end up with guy like him, I want what I had before, is it to late to contact him, to tell him am sorry, I didn't even say goodbye, I just disappeared, am sure he found some one else, you would be a fool to let a guy like that go,he treated me like every woman has always wanted to be treated, thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2017): I've just have to ask this. You just dumped the guy for someone else and not a word? Did he ever try to contact you?
He knows where you live, he never came by to see if there was something wrong?
If you simply dumped the guy and you didn't hear squat from him? I think he has already set the wheels in motion to get over you. A man in his 50's will get-over girlfriends quickly. If he's been through a divorce, he's mature enough to handle just about anything.
If you want to make up, nobody can stop you from trying; but him! Or his new girlfriend!
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reader, judgedick  +, writes (26 July 2017):
 I agree with Denizen as if he was as good as you say now you would not have split up, does this man still talk to you?
we don't know him so all you can do is make some contact with him and see if he is open to a new start, some of us get soft as we get older and some get harder
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (26 July 2017):
 He obviously wasn't what you wanted or you wouldn't have let him go, and in that manner too. There is no going back in my opinion. You have made your bed...
They say we keep getting the same lesson in life until we learn it. That is your task now if you will forgive me.
Stop picking jerks. You know what they look like by now. You also know by now what you really want. Use this knowledge to find the right man for you.
But no going back, not to the poor chap you so rudely dumped. Be kind to him and let him heal.
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