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Is it that I'm gay???

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Question - (20 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I’ve searched through so many sites, trying to find some help and advice so I’m hopeful that somebody can help me here?

I’m in my early 20's, average looking, and have never slept with a guy. I’ve had previous boyfriends, but could never take the step of sleeping with them. Why? Because, I think I’m gay...

Why do I think I’m gay? Well because I’ve had/have feelings for women, and those feelings don’t compare at all with the feelings I had when I was in a relationship with any guy. There is a girl in my life at the minute, and I do believe I’m starting to fall for her - I can’t explain it, I just feel so happy when I’m around her, and jealous if I see her chat or kiss guys. I don’t know if there’s anything there on her behalf. For now I’m assuming that there is not, as she is a good friend of mine.

So what can I do to help make some sort of decision? I feel it’s time I started to live a little, and I want to kiss a woman, even just to see how it feels, and to see if I feel that “spark” that I’ve only ever pretended to feel with a guy.

Anyone got any help or advice to offer me?

Thanks for reading

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010):

Go down to a local gay bar for the night!! Even if you don't want to sleep with a woman maybe you can just take a few steps and/or see what you make of the whole scene!

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