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writes:Recently I gave my boyfriend a blowjob, but it was my first time and I was really nervous. I used to hand to help, and it didn't last long. Basically, he started leaking (I'm guessing he came O.o), but I didn't know whether I was supposed to stop or keep going. Later I gave him a handjob and he came (once again, I'm only guessing), but I kept going because I didn't know whether I was supposed to stop. When am I supposed to stop?Also, I've heard that when a guy comes, his sperm just shoots straight out, but his just sort of oozed out. I wanted to know if that's normal, because I have no idea what to do. I would really appreciate the help and advice! ^-^
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): using your hand is fine and often helps and is more pleasurable.
it doesn't have to last long but in order to help it last longer, move you mouth down his shaft and lick his balls. you dont have to keep the head in your mouth the whole time because when you move your mouth back and forth like your fucking, thats what makes him cum.
it is normal for it to ooze out. it shoots and oozes.
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reader, apathyslastkiss  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 Hey there,
yeah everything's normal with the "oozing". Sometimes it shoots out, and sometimes it "oozes" or dribbles. It's completely normal.
Don't be over critical about it "not taking long" - that's a terrible expectation most women have of men - that they should somehow endure any sexual pleasure for hours on end. It's ridiculous. Orgasm for males doesn't take very long, and that's just a biological fact.
he may want you to stop after he cums, or to keep going. Play it by ear, or ask him. ONce he cums, his orgasm is pretty much done, but he'll still get pleasure f you continue to stroke his d*ck
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (3 July 2009):
 I'm probably weird but it depends on how I feel in the moment, sometime I will ask of her to keep on going, to slow down, or to stop.
My best bet would be to ask him how he would like it.
Sperm sometime shot out, sometime it doesn't (it just oozed out). It can depend on a lot of things, in any case, the guy got an orgasm and it's normal.
Some believe that when it shoots out, it means he had a bigger orgasm. I couldn't tell you for sure since I experience pretty big orgasm when oozing out as well.
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