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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi I just had a question... Ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 years, and he is currently in the military. The thing is he has been acting a little distant lately...he still calls but not when he says he will. He said he would send me a present but he hasnt, and he is not as sweet over the phone like he used to, and because of this, i seem to get even more clingy. ugh!However, i saw him recently and he was really happy to see me...He was affectionate and needed me to be with him, but when we are back long distance, he doesnt talk that much over the phone (he still tells me about his day, but lacks interest when I tell him about mine) I know it could possibly be because he is under stress, but could it be that he is falling out of love and having a hard time with LDR?I told him that we needed some space and he responded that he does not take steps backward, and that if we needed space, then that was it, it was over, but only to get back together again like we always do when we see each other again.Suggestions will be very appreciate it!! Thanks!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 January 2008):
 Keep your long distance talk short.Most men don't like long conversations on the phone except when they are chasing you or just starting to date you.
This is a man thing. It has nothing to do with him loving you less. You should not equate that with his love.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (23 January 2008):
well let me think. if you two are good when you are together then i think you should be together. maybe he gets busy in the military. you know. or he's stressing out because he cant have you by him and he dont want to feel bad by hearing your voice then hanging up. you should really talk to him about that. be open to one another
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