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writes:i know it is quiet weird to ask , regarding my age but i just have to .. i wanna know if what we are doing is -sex - , me and my bf , he slightly enters me and u know in and out all that , but not that he actually gets his peins -inside- my hymen isnt broken yet , it got a little weary but not broken at all i just want to know if that is considered sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionguys thanks alot really helps to know i'm not the only one wondering and natasia he didnt ejaculate but i guess there was that precum , i'm trying to remain calm and all , waiting for my period to start , but i should get a pregnancy kit i think , we didnt think my hymen would be like a protection like condoms , actually coming to think about it we didnt think at all nor talked about it , something i should talk about i mean it is me who is gonna suffer at the end , thanks again
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): It might count as sex, or it might not, depending on whose definition you use. If your question is 'am I still a virgin or not?', I think you're in that grey area where you should ask yourself 'do I FEEL like a virgin?'.I went through a very similar phase (but on the male side). I suppose I was technically a virgin, but I didn't consider myself to be one. Let's just say I was buying, and using, condoms about a month before my girlfriend and I had what would be regarded as 'sex'. I was about the same age that you are now.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Here, I found this for you:
http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/sexpedia/hymen.html
It's all about hymens. Basically, the hymen is only a partial covering of the opening, because when you have your period, blood needs to be able to come out. If blood can come out, sperm can definitely wiggle there way in there and swim up ... I so hope you're going to say your boyfriend didn't ejaculate when he was against what you thought was your protective hymen ... but I fear you might say he did. And even if he didn't, you know that if he was close to ejaculating, or shortly after having done that, then there's a (slim) chance some sperm could also have been transferred to you and made their way.
Be calm, but go and do the test.
xx
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reader, natasia +, writes (15 April 2009):
If he has put it a little bit in (I guess you mean maybe gone just inside the lips) and actually ejaculated there, then of course you might be pregnant. The hymen is often not totally intact by your age, from exercise as someone said such as bike riding, horse riding, etc. - so if you both were thinking that the hymen would mean you were kind of sealed up and he could ejaculate there with no danger, then I'm really sorry, because I'm pretty sure that isn't the case.
If you period is late, you must go and do a pregnancy test asap. Go and do it, just so you know what the situation is. We are all here to support you whatever - just do the test. xx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (15 April 2009):
 Are you sure your hymen is intact? I'm not a girl and not sure how you can tell but I do know that it only takes riding a bike or doing the splits to break your hymen.
Therefore even if it hurts to have sex or for him to fully penetrate, there is still a remote chance of pregnancy.
So yes ALWAYS use protection and any unprotected sex is worth following up with an STI and Pregnancy test.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 April 2009):
 A weary hyman is better than none I guess. Pregnant but still a virgin, it's only happened once. However you could still have gotten all kinds of nasties if he wasn't wearing a condom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thanks for yours replies , i know it is quiet a weird question , i wanna know if we should use protection ? cause my priod is late and im a little concerned
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (14 April 2009):
It's close enough
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reader, natasia +, writes (14 April 2009):
In my opinion, that is not quite sex, no. Trust me - there is an awful lot further to go yet.
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