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Is it selfish of me to prefer sex when he's wearing a condom.. because he lasts longer?

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Question - (21 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2006)
A female Canada, anonymous writes:

When my boyfriend was using a condom, he would make me come multiple times. After I told him I'm taking the pill, he stopped using condoms. I'm not afraid of STD as I know I'm the only girl he will ever sleep with.

My situation is this. I know my boyfriend enjoys sex much better without a condom. On the otherhand, I'm not getting my multiple orgasm when he comes quicker than when he was using a condom. We have been trying different things and we find coming together at the same time makes us happy together. But I can choose, I will have to say I enjoy coming multiple times better. Do you think it's selfish that I still like the condom sex better? Should I even tell him about it?

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A female reader, mjmoonwalker89 +, writes (24 December 2006):

mjmoonwalker89 agony auntjust remember and remind him that you can still get pregnant while on the pill

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006):

For that (as well as other reasons), no. Tell him to wear it, and if you want, tell him why you want him to wear it, but don't think that you shouldn't be concerned with being sexually satisfied (after all, you aren't engaging in sex because it it will prepare you for a marathon).

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