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writes:I'm 19, I'm at university and I'm a nerd. I've never kissed a girl (proper kiss) in my life, let alone have sex with a girl, and when I go out with friends at night to clubs, I have very little chance of getting a date with a girl as I can't dance at all. My question - is it possible for me a nerd to be able to go out with an attractive girl who has a great personality as well.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (12 November 2006):
 Confidence is key. I know you're going to hear this again and again, but it's all about having confidence in yourself. How do you go about getting that confidence? I'd suggest giving yourself a little makeover. Buy yourself an outfit that you feel comfortable and sexy in. Or maybe get a super nice haircut.
Not all girls are superficial. Most girls want a guy who's sweet, clever, intelligent and considerate. Don't worry about your appearance, or your dancing skills. Go to craigslist.com and see if you can make any female friends there. Don't go looking for a girlfriend instantly, but having female friends can really help you get comfortable around girls.
They can also give you advice on how to get them!
Happy girl seeking!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006):
Yes. The technique is to offer minor compliments but treat them as not worthy of you. This works extremly well on attractive vain girls.
The downside is you end up dating someone shallow and flighty. You might have been luck with the nice loney girl at the library on Saturday night than the flibity gibbit in the bar.
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reader, ogga +, writes (11 November 2006):
get a make over, get a good hair cut, get a new wardobe and whatever till you are happy with your appearance and somehting that will attract aswell because even though people will say be happy with yourself (which is true) the reason we make our selves look good is so that we can attract.
I am a "nerd" and proud of it perhaps not the biggest nerd but i am, i have a great girlfriend, and everybody can look attractive unless of course they only have one eye
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reader, bonym +, writes (11 November 2006):
 Dont call yourself a nerd and do not ever think that you are not good enough for a pretty gitl. No one is better than anyone, dont think that just cos a girl is pretty that she is bette than you. Love yourself and love will follow. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): Of course. I just think it's so sad that some groups of people get called nerds simply because of the way they are! It's so daft. You wouldn't really want to go out with a girl that classed you as a nerd anyway so don't go for girls like that. Look for a girl who will look past your title of "nerd" and see you for the person you are.
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reader, jng23 +, writes (11 November 2006):
anything is possible.
Work on your self esteem. Try not to call yourself a nerd and just tell yourself that you are attractive. Having a little self confidence will help you out.
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