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writes:Is it possible to be in love but to fancy someone else at the same time?This guy said it isn't... but I and my friend think it is.Any second opinions? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all =]
He sounded very unhappy with me :S
I think it's cos I tell him I love him, but I could fancy another guy. It shouldn't matter anyway because we're only friends...
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reader, cmadd  +, writes (12 August 2008):
Lets call the person you're(or someone) is in love with X and the second person Y.
If one is already in a steady relationship with X, then it would be okay to fancy Y, just as long as you keep it to a lunch engagement(or dinner maybe). X will not like it if you're going and making out with Y. But he might not mind if you and Y talk together and things of that sort.
Sorry if this doesn't make much sense, it sounded better in my head.
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reader, Emivia  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 I was in love with my ex boyfriend, but I always fancied Johnny Depp whilst I was with him.
It is possible. Being in love just means that you wouldn't be able to bring yourself to act on these attractions.
When I was with my boyfriend, had the lovely Johnny asked me out on a date, I would have said "no, sorry Johnny." with no second thought about it (well, not much of one anyway).
BUT NOW....
Johnny, where are you?
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (12 August 2008):
 It is possible
Under any circumstances you can fancy other people
Most people are in love but they fancy other people too which is perfectly normal but this doesn't mean that they'll do anything with the person they fancy
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reader, SuperSammie +, writes (12 August 2008):
 i think it is possible.
like u can be sexually attracted to a number of guys, u can easily fancy someone.
but u can be in love with someone else.
but its up to you if u aknowledge the attractive guys wen ur in love.
like that saying 'look but don't touch'
basicly you can look at sum1 u find attractive but dont touch while your in love with sum1 else.
x
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reader, alwaysndforever +, writes (12 August 2008):
it deffinitly is possible beacuse its happening to me right now. im totally in love with my boyfriend of almost 10 months but he is going to college in 10 days and i recently met this other guy and never thought it was possible but i like him too...it stresses me out nd makes me feel really bad but you cant control your feelings. but to answer your question it is possible
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): Yes it is possible to be in love with someone but fancy someone else... its called lust!
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reader, lostone +, writes (12 August 2008):
You can be attracted to someone even if you love another person. You can even develop an infatuation with that person. But I think you can only really, deeply love one person at a time. Some will probably say that you can love two at once, but in your heart you know that one person has more of it than the other.
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