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anonymous
writes:I been having thoughts that i want my ex boyfriend back, it is impossible because he's already engaged for a year now. What makes it even weirder is that we broke up 4 years ago. So i was dating with my ex for couple of months, we broke up because i was immature and jealous i broke up with him thinking that i give him a lesson but instead i attracted to another man which is now my current boyfriend. I attracted to him because he used to treated me right at least more than my ex and turns out I was wrong. 2 years ago (i already dating my current bf) and my ex (already dating his current fiance) meet up and talks and i can still feel our chemistry and can't stop thinking about it But it feels wrong and so i stop it, but i never stop thinking about what would happen if i keep seeing him that time( before he got engaged) will it be different or maybe will i be the one that is engaged with him, a couple months ago we contacted as friends just texting but not often i feel wrong again and deleted him, but i really can't stop thinking about him and started to stalk his fiance by looking all her social media and looking their pictures Everyday. Is it possible that he's the one that got away? I usually don't believe in those kind of stuff, i mean i used to believe if it meant to be it will be but the truth is that he's the only guy that makes me feel butterfly in my stomach, makes my heart skip a beat and i remember everytime we hold hands it just felt right, it doesn't feel that way with my current bf but that time i didn't really care because he treats me right. Turns out he's only like that at first and i really regret and want my ex back am i crazy?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 April 2017):
 No you are not crazy. But I do think you are living on a whim off what ifs. If he wanted to be with you he would not be engaged to another women, he would have fought for you. It seems you have a case off you want what you cant have.
First off I would suggest leaving your current boyfriend as it is obvious he is not the man for you and it sounds like you are stringing him along.
Secondly if you need closure with your ex then go ahead and tell him how you feel. He may give you the closure you need to move on with your life.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 April 2017):
 Based on your track record, you are a woman who always finds that the grass is greener on the other side.
No, if you were with your ex you most likely would not have been engaged. You would have had an on and off relationship and just hurt each other.
Learn to apprechiate what you have.
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reader, mad stacey  +, writes (4 April 2017):
Either be brave and tell him and see what he says or leave it dump your now bf and go out be single have fun ...do what makes you happy dont live a life of regrets
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2017): I already tried but i can't stop thinking about him. Maybe other people won't believe it but the first time i see him my heart literally skipped a beat. It never happened to other men that i see before or after him
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reader, N91 +, writes (4 April 2017):
 Why do you keep going back to your exes?
They are an ex for a reason, move forwards with your life not backwards. There are plenty of guys out there.
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