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writes:i am a non practising christian divorced with children and ive met a new partner who is widowed and a catholic can we have a physical relationship and get married
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reader, snowflake +, writes (11 March 2009):
snowflake is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help
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reader, Jmo  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 I agree with ArmyMedic, and don't get too worked up about it. My mom was Lutheran and my dad was a divorced Catholic (a big no-no in the church). They had been intimate before they were married and when the did get married had a hell of a time trying to find a church that would marry them, but in the long run who cares? You love each other and that's all that matters....right?
-Jmo
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Yeah, go for it. Depending on how Catholic he is, and how strict his church is, they may or may not allow a ceremony in their church. Churches often offer couples counseling, and you two could discuss these matters there and get clearer answers.
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reader, snowflake +, writes (11 March 2009):
snowflake is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for replying yes we do love each other but its still early days but yes the chemistry is there
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (11 March 2009):
I don't see why not... Am I missing something? Do you love each other? Or are you looking to just get married for benefits and have a sexual relationship only?
I feel like I'm not getting the whole picture.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Yes of course you can, you may have to have a civil ceremony rather than a church wedding, as the Catholic church can be a little funny at times. But the best advise is for you both to speak to his priest for advise.
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