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writes:Is it possible for a man to love his wife but still have a wandering eye? If the man is so satisfied at home...why would he look at other women? Does it boost his ego or is it just a male testosterone...being a hot blooded male that he can't help but to look at other women too? Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 February 2010):
 Yes, it's possible for a man to love his wife and have a wandering eye. In fact, I think that's the rule. The fact that you're married to someone doesn't mean you've gone blind and insensitive to the opposite sex (or your own sex, if that's your case).
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 February 2010):
 We humans are born with a roving eye. In one study , it was found that woman's eyes are more roving than the man . The difference is that, men do it too obviously than the women.
Don't blame the men . It is not that they don't love you but up to that point, their mind is taken over and they lose control of it.The men are visual creatures.
Many women are embarrassed in public when their men gaze lasciviously at other women without blinking and some even salivating in their mouth.
Men are imbued that way for the human species to survive.They would continue to look even if you tell them not to.
They would only change their style of looking.Maybe, steal some glances out of the corner of their eyes when you are with them .
When you are not with them ,they would ogled to their heart's contents. Many men sit in those open cafe's to ogle at girls passing by.It is a pastime for some of them.
What happens in men’s brains when a “pretty" woman comes into view is that the part of the brain called the visual cortex (VC) automatically registers her presence and, without conscious thought, his eyes turn to assess her.
A thing of beauty is a joy forever. Who does not enjoy looking at a pretty thing?
Why b/f's and husbands have roving eyes and how to deal with it?
You can read more at the link below.
Reference:-
http://searchwarp.com/swa59039.htm
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/roving-eyes-heartache.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2010): All men do it to some degree. Mine would stand and stare with his mouth open if he found a woman particularly attractive. I found that sort of thing very rude of him so hes curbed it now, in my presence atleast. Just ask your husband not to make it so obvious if you find it hurtful. It doesnt seem to affect them loving us as far as i can see. I dont think they are falling in love with these women, its just an "Ug the Caveman Man, sees woman" thing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 February 2010):
A male will always look at an attractive female whether married or not, just as a woman will always look at an attractive man (think of all those women who have crushes on actors and such). But if a man loves you, he won't cheat at all.
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reader, sammi star +, writes (23 February 2010):
 Of course it's possible! All men look at other women but it doesn't mean they don't love their partner. Don't you ever look at another guy and appreciate how good looking he is?! I don't see anything wrong with it, look but don't touch is a very good saying!
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