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30-35,
*t. Nowhere
writes:Hi all,To start this off let me just say that I'm coming from a small private school so there aren't many girls in my grade. Even when I was at a public school I never got much attention and I don't really know why. I try I really do. I really want to be something in life but right now I feel completely ignored by girls altogether. I feel really hopeless a lot of the time and I'm worried there's something wrong with me. This really has me depressed and I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever get married or even just lose my virginity. I haven't had a girlfriend in along time and it's getting hard for me to even convince myself to try anymore. I've been turned down so many times but the girls always said "Oh you didn't do anything wrong I just don't like you." How do I deal with this? If you guys need more details just ask!-St. Nowhere (Frustrated in Love)
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reader, St. Nowhere +, writes (24 March 2011):
St. Nowhere is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks to all who answered. Would have liked to get more responses but whatever. Not trying to sound rude because believe me your answers did give me some degree of hope, a rare thing for me these days. I'm not worried about the virginity as much as I am the wife. I know I'm only 17 but I worry about this kind of stuff because its so unpredictable. To the second responder consider yourself among the lucky few. I hope that I can find someone someday that will make me feel fufilled in life and who I can love completely. Any additional feedback would be appreciated! Thanks!
-St. Nowhere
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): You are not at all pathetic for being a virgin. Rare commodity...maybe. I was in my 20's, and waited until I married my wife of a couple decades now. No regrets. It got a little old waiting at times, which is what I think you are experiencing now, but few of the best things in life are the easiest. Girls will eventually start liking you, the more you are "yourself" and not what you think they want.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2011): You are not pathetic for being a virgin, Im in my twenties and Im still a virgin by choice. Do you really think that your just going to wake up and find the "one"?It doesnt just happen like that, you need to get to know people first. I was absolutly head over heals for my best friend and I use to ask her out all the time and she said no I felt the way you did, and until recently I asked why, because she just never had feelings for me, nothing that I did. You will find someone some day, maybe tomorrow or maybe next year, it sucks being single but eventually your going to meet someone who really takes your breath away.
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