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female
age
30-35,
*adybug Esha
writes:My mother married a man that she has known for years and he is now my step father.. My step father has a God son and I am attracted to this God son. We have known each other almost 8 months now.. I found out I was pregnant before knowing him and he knew I was.. Shortly after meeting him, I moved in with him and have been with him ever since.. We even engaged in sex.. I have strong feelings for him but lately his children's mother has been throwing up the fact that him and I are god brother and sister through my step dad.which is his god father and my step dad.. I don't know if he is listening to them or not.. I ask him about it but he just brushes my question off and act as I I didn't say anything, but he have also stopped being affectionate with me.. My question is to, is it ok to date my stepdads godson??
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reader, like I see it +, writes (22 October 2015):
 From a legal and genetic standpoint, you are not related and there is absolutely nothing to prohibit you from being with him.
Could it make for some awkward family get-togethers if you break up and still have to see him? Yes. But that's life.
It sounds like the real issue here is his ex stirring the pot. In all likelihood she isn't over him, is jealous he has moved on, wants to cause trouble in his new relationship... and this is the angle she's chosen to use. Sounds like it is working so far.
I'd suggest sitting down with your new boyfriend and having a talk to clear the air about what you both are thinking and feeling. Sounds like it's time to set some appropriate boundaries for the input his ex should have regarding your love life (hint: it's none of her business!)
Hope this helps. Good luck and best wishes!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (22 October 2015):
 Yep. It's OK..... UNLESS he's your first cousin....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 October 2015):
 is it legally ok
sure
you are not related at all
now if you two break up it could be awkward...
but there is no legal prohibition to you two dating or marrying
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