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anonymous
writes:I've known this man for 6 months. We went out for a drink one night and I went to his house afterwards. We had sex for the first time. Days after he says a good woman should not follow a man home and have sex on the first night. I am just too easy. I said what about himself as it takes two to tango. He said a man is all right. I am not a woman who like to sleep around. I am really annoyed what he said. Please advise. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): Thanks for your input, Anon.
You've got to be joking! Making babies at age 41-50? I imagine she's well past that stage by now and the sex is purely a fun thing.
Your thinking is Neanderthal.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): Sex makes babies. Man likes to make sure those babies are his. This is why a woman that gives herself away easily is not the perfect selection as a partner/wife.It's not rocket science.
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (1 December 2007):
 Phone him up and ask him how else were you supposed to get rid of those damn crabs? And put the phone down.
Sorry, just my little joke. But the best reply to this sort of hypocrisy is a through humour - at their expense. Because they are just not worth it. Don't let it get to you - laugh and move on.
Take care
Richard.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (1 December 2007):
 Personally I'm not big on sex on the first night... with someone you just met. But you've known each other 6 months. This is ample time for the two of you to get to know each other. This may have been your first 'date' but it's very far from just jumping into bed with someone randomly. Tell him it wasn't 'your first night' at all, but rather sex after 6 months. That should hopefully shut him up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): Don't take any notice of him. That's a classic double standard if ever I heard one, and you've every right to be annoyed with him.
A good woman might not follow a man home for sex, but a better one might! What's the point of waiting to have a spot of nookie when that's what you'd end up doing anyway?
What a plonker!
Phil
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