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41-50,
*elpiswhatineed
writes:well i think i need some advice,me and my husband of almost 2 years are really trying for a baby.im guessing im hard to get pregnate.the doctor says that i can have kids and hes sprem is fine,but in my family it takes at least 2 years to have a baby,my mother had her children 4 years apart and toke 2 years to get pregnate each time my sisters same way had 2 children 4 years apart well even thow its odd i admit ive been trying for about 7months now nothing and even when im ovulating nothing so im wondern what can i do ive sex 1 every month as my husban is in the milatry and we are really bust trying to take time for each other and even toke 2 days together for baby making and making lovebut still nothing please help ive been 2 3 differnt doctors still the same thing i can have children and so can he he has a high sprem count but im studed is it not my time for a child ?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 try to relax about having a baby. I know that sounds easier said then done, but the more stressed and worked up you get the longer it will take. Is there a possible chance of having IVF over there?
Both yours and your husbands bodies may be perfectly able to parent kids but sometimes as you said it just isn't your right time.
Good luck hunni
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): There is no time when a woman "must have a baby!" If you truly feel like you can't wait for a child then why not look into adoption? An adopted child can love you as much (or more when they realize that you chose him or her out of all the kids in need of homes) as any biological child.
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