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writes:I have a problom i'm really young but i can't seem to stop masturbating, i do it at least 1 every 2 days, i know it's normal but still it's really irritating is it normal to do it that often and at my age? (11)Pleas if you have religious beliefs that include negative about this pleas don't answer. It just makes me feel bad and it's of no help. Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): i did it when i was 11 dude i think maybe even when i was 10 and im 1 i do it almost every other day lol its normal... i think
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reader, JAva16 +, writes (26 October 2008):
Hey . I'm 16 and doint it like 2 times every 1 day, it is normal, and more at the age that you are!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): I am 12 and i have recently been watching guy on guy porn and masturbating at least once everyday, sometimes i feel really horny and i even look at boys and think what they would be like in bed ! But its just normal to explore your body and in the end it is a good stress reliever ! Its healthy !
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): It's the same for me... (I'm 11)
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Its normal, i normally will only do it once every other day or so but if there is a lot of stress or im having a lot of sexual urges i will do it more but even then ill do it like 2 times a day every day if i can. But those periods will last a week at the most then ill stop all together for a few days then start getting back to normal. So its mainly personal prefrence and its normal dont worry. And apparently its good stress reliever for many.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Don't worry about it; seriously. What you're doing and the number of times you do it is perfectly normal.
There are people who have conditions where they can't stop masturbating - but trust me - they do it a LOT more than you do.
I started masturbating when I was a year younger than you and don't think I'm worse off because of it. You have nothing to worry about :)
Take care xx
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reader, birdynumnums  + ♥, writes (21 January 2008):
 I was 11 when I began masturbating, and I probably did it once every other day, and at other times in my life, every day. It sounds absolutely normal to me!
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 its only natural, what you are doing isnt wrong [obviously some people will have different opinions [this is only mine]]
i didnt start till later.. but if your happy with what your doing then just enjoy yourself
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Hey hun its perfect normal to explore your body and masturbate. Your not abnormal your perfectly fine =] x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Yeah I think its totally normal. I started masturbating at about that age. I'll be honest though, I can't remember how often I did it, cause it was SO long ago, but since it is a totally new thing, you are going to want to do it often. That's perfectly normal. So don't fret! You are NOT weird. Just very normal, actually.
It is very weird though, going through it. I know how you feel. Being a pre-teen/teenager is definitely an awkward time for all kids going through it. But as you get older, you start getting more and more comfortable in your own skin and life gets easier and easier. So just hang in there.
And also, as you get older you will do it less and less or go through phases where you masturbate more often or less often.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (21 January 2008):
 You know you're an 11 year old you have better grammer and spelling than me.
normal? yeah. commen? not really. but its perfectly natural
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reader, kit_e_kat +, writes (21 January 2008):
 you say you do it at least once every few days, you have hit puberty now and many men i know masterbate twice a day most days! So your not abnormal at all! well within the limit it seems anyway! But if it is bothering you then maybe you should see a doctor or counsellor or even try and ask a very close friend. I know it is probably an embarassing question to ask but it is the only way you can get a true perspective on the subject. Especially when it comes from other males.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 What is normal to some may not be normal to others. If you are constantly thinking of masturbation,then it is not normal.Anything done in moderations is OK .But if you do it excessively , then it is bad.
How do you define excessive?
When you feel that you cannot control your thoughts and have a very strong urge to masturbate, then it becomes addictive and compulsive. If you can control this function , then you are normal.
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reader, Variety +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Yeah it is normal. People are starting exploring things sexually much earlier these days. So don't worry about it. I would suggest trying to do it less often as the anticipation of it will make things better. Hope this helps. x
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reader, mmacmillan +, writes (21 January 2008):
 Hiya Hun,
There is no "normal" age to be masturbating, everybody develops at different rates and start at different ages. If you like to do it, then it doesn't matter how old you are, it's a private thing, is completely natural and normal and is NOTHING to be ashamed of.
Onec avary two days is not excessive either, thats normal. But even if you did ten times a day then that still wouldn't matter because it's your personal preference.
Hope this helps.
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