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writes:Last night my Fiance went down on me.. It felt Good but he didnt do it long enough.. i think he sucked my clit a little too hard because it was a little sore afterwards for awhile, my Q is 'is that Normal that my Clit Hurt after he is finished going down on me maybe because he dont often go down on me like that or could it be he Is he doing it Wrong??
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): No, it's not normal. It's highly sensitive and should only be lightly stroked. Don't let him do it like that again. He should not be sucking it. It could damage the nerves! Then you'd never be able to have an orgasm again.
You need to sit down and talk to him about this!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (9 November 2010):
 No, sorry, I have to be stubborn, and insist : it's not normal, and if that happens it means that the guy has been too rough , too clumsy or too careless for what he is supposed to do.
That's a very sensitive area rich with thousands of nerve endings, if you rough it up you totally defy the purpose ( unless you are explicitely requested rough handling by women into the pain/pleasure kind of thing ).
Contrariously to what some people seem to believe, the procedure is not akin to prying seafood out of a shell, or pulling meat off a chicken leg.
There is no need , and no point, for making you sore .
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (9 November 2010):
He is doing it wrong. Very wrong.
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reader, Darksilver  +, writes (9 November 2010):
Is normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010): I had this happen a few weeks back, and he actually tore some skin off the top of my clit ( Ouch) What I had to do was this - DO NOT, wash with soap ( that;s not good practice anyway to put soap down there) get some tissue, make it damp with warm water, and put some natural salt ( or any salt on it) , and hold it on the affected area. yes, it WILL sting, but it will heal it. Do this at regular intervals. Mine took around 5 days to heal. Also, check in the mirror to see where the affected area is, and make sure to wear clean cotton knickers, and genrally keep yourself well aired down there It could get infected if you do not keep it very clean. Salt is the best. If the symptoms continue for more than a week, maybe go and see your GP. Hope that helps!! and next time , tell him to be GENTLE!!
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