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writes:I was wondering is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating? I dont understand it because when im not doing any thing sexual the thought of him being with someone else kills me but during the heat of the momment its a major turn on. Is this normal? Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, katiekate +, writes (26 July 2012):
 I don't think there is a "normal" thing to think about while masturbating. Whatever pops in your head is what pops in your head! I've had that same thought before, and lots of others. So, yes, it's "normal"! :)
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 July 2012):
 What goes on in your head whilest you are masturbating is/are YOUR thoughts.... they're private... and you may excursion as far out from "normal" as you wish....
Good luck...
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reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (26 July 2012):
 When it comes to sexual fantasies and masturbation habits, there's really no such thing as "normal". What you're fantasizing about is, however, very common and nothing at all for you to worry about. I think a very large portion of the western population thinks about their partners with other people at least occasionally. You're totally fine, hon.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (26 July 2012):
 Trust me, there is no such thing as 'normal'... your fantasy is pretty tame compared to some!
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (26 July 2012):
 That is a very common fantasy. Not a very common practice, but many people put their partner in place when they're masturbating because you're obviously attracted to your partner, but you don't want to put yourself there too (because isn't masturbating to yourself a tiny bit self-centered?)
You are in a way creating your own porn in your head starring your partner. This is totally normal, and kind of sweet because even when you aren't with them you're attracted to them!
No worries dear :)
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 July 2012):
 Yes, very common. Don't worry about it, it doesn't mean you want your partner to cheat on you.
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