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Is it normal that sex is painful the first few times?

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Question - (29 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and i just became sexually active 2 days ago. We were both virgins. In the last 2 days we have had sex 4 times.

The first time it was pretty painful. And the last 3 times have been painful but not as much. The last time felt good but it was sort of still kind of painful....

Does my body just need to get use to it?

If the pain continues what should i do and how long should i wait til i do something about it?

Oh and it still hurts everytime he inserts.... But hes very gentle with me.....

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (29 May 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHey sweetness,

You're very normal. Eventually your body will adjust. For me, it took about a week or two for it to start to feel good without any pain. I assure you that it will feel much better before too long!

As the others said, just remember to relax, have fun and use lubrication. Your boyfriend sounds like a sweetie... glad to see that he's be gentle!

Alright, sweetness. Enjoy!

xxIndia

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A female reader, Pretty and proud United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2007):

Pretty and proud agony auntIts very normal you have to get used to it sorry babe! Try foreplay or lubricant, it might ease the pain a bit. xXx

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