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*outhern_belle123
writes: Okay, this is the story. My best friends neighbor is geting really close to us. He is so nice and extremly hot. Lately, we've been hitting on each other, and kissed a little. I was pure presured by my friend to do it though! I'm starting to like him but I'm still not sure how I feel about the age difference. Ooh yeah, forgot to mention that he's 20 and I'm 15. I dont care about age because my parents are 8 years apart. I'm just worried what I'd do if anyone found out that I kissed him?! My brother is so pertective and I don't want my friends neighbor to get hurt!I wouldn't be able to ever face him if my brother hurt him. He is the nicest guy I've met in a while. He acully seems to like me, for me. I don't have to put on an act for him. Is it normal that i like him? Or is it wrong?
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reader, Southern_belle123 +, writes (30 July 2010):
Southern_belle123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey its me again!!
He knows im 15, and he says that he'll wait till im older.
Im not really afriad anymore about him geting hurt, i know he'll be fine, its me and my parents i care about. If anyone finds out then there are gonna be a lot of fights.
Its not just about attraction. He makes me feel amazing! And we kissed again a week later. It wasnt preasured this time. It was one of those moments when your play fighting and then stop for a second and kiss.
We'll stay friends and in 2&1/2 years, we will see what happenes:)
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reader, Odds  +, writes (5 July 2010):
 Sounds fine and normal to me. Just be sure to look up and abide by the age of consent laws in your state/province.
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (5 July 2010):
Sure, you can't help who you fall for. It just happens. But if you were pressured into kissing him by your friends, do you really like him then? If it's just that he's "hot" and older that excites you, then I suggest you stop leading him on. Does he know you're 15? A lot of girls at your age have a tendency to look older than they look. He might think you're legal when you really aren't. I wouldn't worry about his safety. At 20, most guys can take care of themselves pretty well. Just try to figure out what exactly is going on between you two:- is it just some innocent flirtation that will ultimately lead nowhere?- Are you genuinely interested in eachother (to make a relationship work)- Or is it all just hormones and attraction that gets confused for feelings
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (5 July 2010):
 Young lady! It's not uncommon to have a crush on a guy but he is totally taking advantage of both of you. Don't letit go any further!! You will end up hurt and wronged in some pretty bad ways. Just get back to guys your own age.It's not your fault it's totally on him . Run away while you can
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