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Is it bad that I've never masturbated?

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Question - (28 June 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *eartt breakk writes:

hies all,

friends i'm a 19 year old male, and you may find it shocking but it's truth that i've never masturbated in my life.

is something really bad,,?

i've a few times(2or3) tried to masturbate by shaking my dick, but the white fluid won't come out.

though nothing's wrong with my erection. i do sometimes have nightfall, 2-3 times a month, hah, i'm worried sometimes,, and my dick also tilts a little when erect

please help,,

waitinggggggggggggggg,,,

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A male reader, heartt breakk United States +, writes (12 July 2010):

heartt breakk is verified as being by the original poster of the question

heartt breakk agony auntmore over after the precum, my dick drops down

and it's over, what shall i do

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A male reader, heartt breakk United States +, writes (12 July 2010):

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heartt breakk agony auntthnks,,

that what i thought, it's pre-cum,

but then the cum doesn't came,, what shall i do,

i've tried it3-4 times

i think i'm not able to masturbate,, guyz plz advice

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010):

It is pre-cum.

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A male reader, heartt breakk United States +, writes (8 July 2010):

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heartt breakk agony aunthi friends,, this is jon,, heh

i'd like to tell u that i just started to masturbate, been 3-4 days back,, but i don't know vt it is,

a little semen comes out after 5 minutes or so, but i'm not sure if it's semen or not. it's more of a watery, slippery fluid, and the color is also very light milky.

moreover i don't like playing with myself, just did for the sake of doing,

give sm responses,

waitinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

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A male reader, heartt breakk United States +, writes (30 June 2010):

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heartt breakk agony auntthnks for all your support,

the thing is i've many times tried to masturbat and played with my organ, but after some time it doesn't look that much pleasurable, so i don't try much.

but it does makes me clear that it's not a big deal

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010):

It's not weird at all, just because almost all 9 out of 10 guys do it doesn't mean that it's weird that you're not doing it. When you start to get sexually active you'll see that there's nothing wrong with you :)

NightFairy

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (28 June 2010):

TimmD agony auntThere's nothing wrong with you. Some guys are late bloomers. Try this: put on some porn (softcore/hardcore... whatever) and keep yanking it. Don't worry if nothing happens, just keep doing it while watching.... and when you least expect it - BOOM.

Trust me, I was a late bloomer too. I never really got what everybody else was talking about until I was up late one night and gave it another try.

The problem is, once it happens you're going to become addicted. You'll be doing it 3+ times a day. On a good note, this will decrease those wet dreams you've been having. It releases the pressure building up...

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A male reader, groovymoving Estonia +, writes (28 June 2010):

The "white fluid" - also known as sperm, semen, cum, jizz and whatnot - will not start pouring out of your penis after shaking it once or twice. It takes time when having sex as well as when masturbating. The stimulation may last from a few minutes to even more than twenty before the ejaculation starts. It all depends on the speed and how turned on you are, plus some other factors. So if you want to reach orgasm, you need to have time and patience while jerking off.

The question whether it is bad that you haven't done it before or not... Well, masturbation does give you experience, but it's not completely awful if you've never done it before. It's never too late to start. ;)

PS: Before you actually reach orgasm and ejaculate, your penis may emit a different kind of fluid than sperm. It's called precum and it's a sign of being turned on. Ignore it and continue the process, it's well worth the effort. :)

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A female reader, kitty-cat=] United States +, writes (28 June 2010):

kitty-cat=] agony auntno, theres nothing wrong with you. please don't worry about it. some people just don't have that much of a sex drive, or maybe you need a partner to get off. i can't masturbate. i just don't find doing it myself all that pleasuring. i hope this helps :)

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