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Is it all just porn?

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Question - (17 March 2011) 8 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Just wondering, are there "Real" women who like and enjoy getting cummed on her face or in her mouth? or is this all just porn?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011):

My girl genuinely loves me to cum in her mouth or in her. She seriously does love the taste. She feels cumming on her is a "waste", but she is OK with me doing it. I've cum on her face, but she doesn't crave it...she likes it tho. I don't do it much because frankly, it is more physically pleasurable to cum in her than on her. I would say most women do not really like it. In my experience, 1 out of 10 love it, 3 out of 10 like it, maybe half will do anything regarding cum and tolerate it, and half have some aversion to cum on their body, whether it be face, mouth or (shudder) anywhere other than in a towel. Yes, been with a girl who hated the sight of cum, and it was not a fun relationship sexually even tho she was a great person. But there is something extreme or emotionally satisfying about cumming on a woman and seeing it on her. I wouldn't liken it to a dog marking a lamppost, but it may be a male dominance thing. As long as both enjoy it to some extent, who cares why?

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A female reader, smiliek Australia +, writes (18 March 2011):

smiliek agony auntI like my hubby going where ever he wants on me. Not all the time but every so often after a bj or something. In my mouth makes me feel a bit sick atm because i'm pregnant but usually anything is fine. Not dom or anything just like pleasing him

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (17 March 2011):

Honeypie agony auntThere is a HUGE variety in what women (and men) like when it comes to sex.

The reason it's used in porn is because the producers knows that the majority of viewers (men) like to see JUST that.

Personally, I don't see the point of a guy "cuming" on a woman's face. To me it reeks of dominance, he might as well be a dog "marking" a lamp-post.

But for those who DO like it, I see no harm.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (17 March 2011):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntWell I know I do! Not because I like being degraded or any such thing, but just...well, because, I guess. There doesn't need to be a reason for everything, does there?

That said, most women do not and you should respect their wishes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011):

I am a women and I dont find any of that degrading - actually quite the opposite, and I am no dom/sub or whatever else. I think sex is something where no borders should be built between 2 people. If it's a casual encounter - then yes some borders will exist to everyone but in committed, loving relationship with trust both parties should know that nothing the other does in a hot moment is meant to harm them in any way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011):

Some 'real' women enjoy it and regard it as a part of making whoopee with their man. Some hate it and think its degrading and revolting. Its a personal thing. You would have to ask your partner how she felt about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011):

I enjoy having my boyfriend cum in my mouth and on my body, but personally, I don't let him cum on my face because I find it degrading.

There are some elements of porn that are meant to appeal to extreme Doms and extreme Subs - so yeah there are people like that.

But a lot of people enjoy a little bit of something :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2011):

Yeah there are real women like that. Most find it disgusting and degrading though but some women like to be degraded (as do some men). That said most of them will allow it once or twice as a treat out of love and a willingness to try something out to please their partner.

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