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writes:So to be completely honest I'm 16 and I'm worried my boyfriend came in me about 3-4 weeks ago.. it's really been messing with me.. I took the morning after pill as soon as I could which was the third day but a little bit after 72 hours. I asked him if he came and he said he doesn't know.. I keep telling myself I'm fine but ever since my period was really late and when I started it only lasted two days. But I've also been super stressed, took not only one morning after but two (not at the same sitting but within this month), used a Nuva ring for 2-3 days, and also went on a diet for week. So please can someone tell me if it's all in my head, or if I really do have a problem. Thanks!
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (10 May 2017):
if you are in the US go to Planned Parenthood or get a pregnancy test from the dollar store. You need to know now if you are pregnant. If you arent, then be careful in future.
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reader, deirdre +, writes (10 May 2017):
if you are in the US go to Planned Parenthood or get a pregnancy test from the dollar store. You need to know now if you are pregnant. If you arent, then be careful in future.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (19 April 2017):
 At 16 you need to be much more careful. Have you not been taught about safe sex?
Your boyfriend knows if he came or not therefore he is being a jerk not telling you.
Even though you got the morning after pill it was still late and lessens the chance off it working.
The morning after pill will not protect you from infections or diseases.
You should ALWAYS wear condoms and also go on the pill.
You have already made this mistake now so go and buy a pregnancy test and you will know the answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2017): First and foremost, you should've used a condom and even if he came in you with a condom, it decreases the risk of being pregnant. I always make sure that a condom is used and i even use the morning after-pill so that's how i prevent myself from getting pregnant. thing is, if he wasnt using a condom, you should get a pregnancy test. Thats one sure way to know. I get anxious even though ive used a condom, so that can delay your period as well.For me,i remain as calm as possible because i know ive used a condom then my period is never late. So for you just get a pregnancy test. Cuz it seems that you might be pregnant or you're just having a late or irregular period.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (16 April 2017):
 First of all, your boyfriend doesn't know if he CAME?? REALLY?! I'd say that's a big YES.
Second of all, stress and hormone fluctuations can also cause changes in your menstruation, and with a double dose of morning-after pill plus the NUVA ring and your extreme stress, that's not uncommon.
But you need the pregnancy test NOW, not later. If you are pregnant, every day you wait will shut down options for you. If you're negative, then you can breathe easy and stop abusing your body. If you're positive, then you REALLY need to stop abusing your body and consider your options. Doing nothing makes it a whole lot worse.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (16 April 2017):
 If you're old enough to have sex, you need to be responsible enough to have safe sex and see a doctor, not ask strangers online who have no way of knowing if you're pregnant.
Go to your doctor. Get a pregnancy test. Get on birth control and *never* have sex without a condom until you're ready to be a parent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2017): Although I do commend you for being responsible enough to take the morning after pill, also take an otc pregnancy test. Your boyfriend should use condoms in the future.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious + ♥, writes (15 April 2017):
 Nobody can tell you whether you are pregnant. You need to go and have a pregnancy test AS SOON AS POSSIBLE so you know for sure.
What I CAN tell you, however, is that the morning after pill is NOT a form of contraception but an emergency measure only. I can also tell you that people who don't use reliable contraception are called PARENTS.
Sort it out before it's too late.
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