New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244945 questions, 1084256 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Is it a real possibility that someone has set up a fake facebook account under my name and is messaging my ex? I'm sure there must be a reason why she hasn't called!

Tagged as: Big Questions, Long distance, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (9 November 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 10 November 2010)
A male South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hello all

my LDR ex gf broke up with me a year ago. i havent heard a squeak from her since then and wish to get closure at least once in life. i am getting crazy thoughts regarding why havent she contacted as we were so close once upon a time.i know this sounds stupid but i get this nagging feeling that someone is using my name on facebook and creating fake profile and sending her messages to further push her away and change how she sees me (i get this nagging feeling that its the reason i havent got any call or text). i know i cant do anything about it as its out of my control (i saw a facebook profile with my name having weird breakup profile pictures and its locked, i cant see who this person is and its the only profile with my name on facebook !!) please dont tell me to not have any concern and bother about it as i dont want my ex to think anything bad about me if not meet me.

what if that crook is pleading or harressing her from that fake profile?? i can relate it to some people who hated it when we dated. am i over thinking?? my thoughts are running wild but just thinking of a possibility. i cant concentrate myself in anything neither can i call her and ask!! i can atleast share and ease my feelings..what do you think about it ?? please serious answers ..

View related questions: broke up, ex girlfriend, facebook, hasn't called, my ex, text

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2010):

"am i over thinking?"

Damn right you are! Your hallucinating! I dont mean to sound mean but you gotta snap out of it.. SHE BROKE UP WITH YOu, which means she doesn't want anything to do with you..

Move on. Find another girlfriend and stop imagining things..

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

I think it's easier for you to think that somebody has made the fake facebook thing then it is to accept your ex has moved on and that is why she isn't contacting you.

It's hard to think that the person you still like doesn't feel the same anymore. If it's really bothering you send her an inbox message but it could make the situation worse. What if she doesn't reply? You'll only feel worse and you're never going to know if the facebook thing is true or not anyway. I think it's best you move on. This girl is your past, look to the future.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

I think that's a wild stretch of your imagination. You can't accept that it's over and she has moved on, so you're creating a far-fetched scenario in your head.

But just to make sure, drop her a message. Tell her that someone is imitating you on Facebook. Send her the link to the person's profile that you suspect is doing it. And let her know that it's not you. Make it seem like you're giving her a friendly warning as the person could be a scammer. Express your concern. If she doesn't reply, then you will know for sure that she wants nothing to do with you.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2010):

I personally think that you're reading too much into this. I don't think anyone has set up another account. I think she ended things, and I think she has moved on and that's why she hasn't made contact. I don't see any reason as to why someone would bother setting up a whole fake account to get to you through her. Especially since you're already broken up.

I'm afraid that she ended it, and that she decided not to continue contact with you.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (9 November 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt I think it's all your imagination, it's far from impossible that there is another person with your same name with a Facebook profile.

Your ex broke up with you, so why do you assume she would contact you. Some people keep in touch with their exes, but many don't . Ever.

If you are so worried about that, you could just send her a short message explaining her that you fear somebody has put up a fake profile under your name, so if she gets messages supposedly from you, she must disregard them.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (9 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntHi so you saw a profile with your name on it, ok so you think someone is using your name but this could also just be coincidence and this person just shares the same name as you, i think you might just be paranoid she may not have contacted you as she was getting over you and contact makes this hard for a person, but it is obvious that this is worrying you and cutting you up, so the best thing for you to do here is to message her and tell her that you think someone has made a fake account under your name and ask her has anyone got in contact with her using your name, this should clear things up for you. Goodluck.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2010):

i asked this question people...i dont want to call her because she has let me down badly in the end and i dont feel like calling her at all as she hasnt shown any concern and ignored me like a bith in the end

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Is it a real possibility that someone has set up a fake facebook account under my name and is messaging my ex? I'm sure there must be a reason why she hasn't called!"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312439999979688!