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Is it a phase, me thinking I could be gay? Could the suicide of my ex still be complicating my life right now?

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Question - (20 February 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *oreverDoingMe writes:

I honestly think Im gay. I've never been this is love with a girl.

My mom says its just a phase and what Im thinking is love is really in need of friendship.

My ex recently committed suicide and it took me a while to get over it but i smiled and was happy when I spent time with my girlfriend. Could this be a phase or is it real?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2012):

Hi! :)

You are who you are, and the best thing to do is to live it, you may be gay or you may love the person regardless of the gender, but then what? It's true that some people will mind but many won't care. You're the only person who can figure out what makes you happy, and you seem to have found somebody, and it's nice. Now, you have also been through some very difficult times so please do not make any major decision until you feel better, the best to do would be to speak to someone like a cousellor.

If you need more support do not hesitate to contact The GLBT National Youth Talkline: http://www.glnh.org/talkline/index.html AND for other information and even glbt groups near you check: http://www.glbtnearme.org/

Good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2012):

I do not know if you are gay or not but you may be bisexual or bicurious

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