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Is it a compliment that my husband has been masturbating over our wedding photos?

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Question - (1 July 2014) 13 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

A few times I have found my wedding photo album not the way I had put it away. I solved this when I found my husband masturbating while looking at photos of me in my wedding dress. He didn't notice me seeing him doing this.

I haven't told him anything. Just wondering if it is normal and has anyone heard of this. I suppose it must be some type of compliment as it is me.

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A female reader, EmmaW United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2014):

Oh my god that is just perfect! As already said it is a compliment as too many men Masterbate to dirty online porn that 1000's of men do. Your husband sounds like he only has eyes for you! What more could you want. Smile because I know I would!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 July 2014):

Honeypie agony auntI was at first taken back by the whole jacking off to a wedding picture (call me old fashioned) but then I got thinking...

That was a pretty HAPPY day (for most of us) The bride and groom look their best, they are at the doorstep of a new and exciting adventure. (even if they have known each other for years and years and nothing really change RADICALLY in most cases, but nevertheless.. it's a big step, big commitment).

So yes, I think it's a compliment. There you are young, in love, glowing, looking "pristine"... He is thinking yum!

And I think it's a GREAT compliment for a guy, rather then wank to random pornstars, or celebreties he takes a look at his wedding picture and gets "excited". Yea, you should be pleased with it :) YOU ring his bell.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2014):

That is cute, in a weird kind of way, be flattered!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2014):

I'd love to show this to my ex boyfriend who was only interested in masturbating to porn.

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A female reader, WhenCowsAttack United States +, writes (1 July 2014):

Good god, woman, dig that dress out of storage and surprise him by wearing it when he comes home from work! It'll probably be the best sex ever, and do it without mentioning that you caught him. He's going to think you're a mind reader, lol.

Compliment? Heck yes.

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A male reader, RevMick United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2014):

RevMick agony auntHi,

It is a compliment, he isn't doing it to some unknown or a porn star on the internet.

I do find it slightly odd, but it was possibly the best day of his life and he equates that to sexual bliss when he masturbates.

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A male reader, methuselah United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2014):

Hi,

I believe this is a compliment. He is sounds very happy to be married to you. My wife kept her wedding shoes and stockings for me as well. If you see what I mean.

I think it is OK.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2014):

YES. Read the porn section on this site you lucky lucky girl!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2014):

I will say this much.

I had a girlfriend whose big fantasy was for me to take her in her wedding dress. Mind you, this was not my wife. It was a dress from her previous marriage.

When she put it on it turned us both on so much!

I am not sure what your husband is thinking, but why don't you ask? My wife has NEVER found me masturbating in years of marriage maybe he wanted to be caught.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2014):

I would say yes. The fact that it was a picture your wedding day which would've been a big emotional event for him, coupled with what was presumably a pleasant sexual experience for him (the masturbation) I would take it as a compliment. Its never not awkward catching someone masturbating - even if it a lover or spouse so probably best not bring it up, unless its in a cheeky, flirty way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2014):

I would find it a bit weird, but everyone has their own taste.

I would absolutely take it as a compliment!

He turns on you, or you both!

Bless you and your hubby dear xx

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A male reader, wiseoldman United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2014):

Do you still have the gown or can you rent something similar? Arrange a quiet weekend for the two of you with a special surprise and start things off by artfully posing on the bed wearing it, veil and all.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (1 July 2014):

YouWish agony auntYES! I'd take it as a compliment if it were me.

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