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writes:As far as I know my husband is happily married. We have been married just over a year and we have a very active and open sex life. I get that masturbation is normal, but he has to look up porn every time, like submit your ex on sublime directory. We had sex this morning and I later foun that he had looked up some porn pics just before and this really bothers me. Is this need for porn normal?
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (8 September 2008):
 Porn should only become problematic when the person who views it neglects physical and emotional contact with their partner.
To me, this hasn't happened at all and you two are happily married.
But if it really worries you, try to have a talk to your husband. Tell him that even though you two have a healthy sex life and that you accept him watching porn, that him doing it in the rate he's doing is making you think that it will develop into an addiction and neglect you.
If he laughs it off, don't take it against him. He might just believe that he will never do that to you and finds it funny you will think that way of him. Just kindly ask him to lay off porn for a couple of days and just make it a "weekend deal".
Or come up with a compromise on your own. You're husband and wife, and with that title should come compromise and communication.
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