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writes:Ahhhhh! Hey guys, well ill dive into it, i told one off my friends who is/was bi-curious that i was gay and that i had feelings for him. It was fine last week everything was A-OKay! I said to him, Erm well i think your really cute and your really nice 3 he replyed saying ohh thanks xx i think your really nice too, your looks ain so bad either ;] And now hes like ohh i dint did i? I dint mean it like that, now i just feel stringed along. :/ But i really do like him, hes really nice, really cute, and he says hes bi-curious but never thinks of it until someone mentions it, is he worth pursuing and how? thanks guys! Reply to this Question
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Well... for one... you're both very young. YOU may have already figured out that you are bi/gay... but he might still be working on the whole big/gay/straight thing.
He PROBABLY said nice things to keep from hurting your feelings... this doesn't make him bi/gay or straight. And the fact that he then said he didn't means that he probably doesn't want to lead you on.
You probably should just stick to being friends... for now. If he does or does not want to be more than just friends... over time... it should become more obvious. I know it's hard... but you can't force someone to be something they are not... or to like you more than they do.
The hard part for you will be trying not to get any more 'attached' to him than you already have.
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (30 November 2010):
I would say that he isn't worth pursuing. I think when he said those things about you he may have said them because he felt awkward and didn't know what to say. He obviously isn't interested in you so I think it would be best just to drop it. Pursuing this is more likely to make things worse than it is to pay.
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