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writes:ok, so i have this bf who i love and believe i am IN love with... just heres the problem...He loves me also... just him and his ex is making me so mad.He will walk away from me to hangout with her, talks to her, gives her hugs. and crap. im just feed up. he even said he wanted her back, but she doesnt want him back... i know i should break up with him... i just really really feel hard for this guy... and i know he did me too. so what im saying is why does he do that stuff if he says he loves me?could it be fake love...? or he could be using me waiting and seeing if him and his ex ever gets back?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (21 May 2009):
 hun he says he loves you but wants his ex back?
that's not love hun i think he is just using you to get back with his ex.
see he thinks that if he's with another girl she'll get jealous and want him back and basically he'll drop you and get back with her in a second.
and that's totally unfair on you hun. you deserve so much better and i know it'll be hard because you've really fallen for him but do you really want a guy whom says one thing to you but actually means another?
Hope this helps hun.
best of luck !
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (21 May 2009):
If he says he loves you but goes off saying he wants to be with another girl, then he really doesn't love you. If he actually loved you then he'd respect you and want only you, nobody else. You might love him and it might be hard but you should really break up with this guy because you might end up getting hurt in the end. You deserve better than that and you're still young so you'll find a guy that loves you, for you and only you and doesn't want to be with anyone but you. If you need anymore advice, just message me. :)
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reader, GrimmReality + ♥, writes (21 May 2009):
 I know it takes the heart a long time to catch up with the head...
This guy is keeping you around in case he cant get his ex back.
simple as that. and you are letting him by having feelings for him.
So you are answering your own question. If you wish to play second fiddle and be used then continue. But I urge you to come to your senses. No one, man or woman, is ever worth risking your own happiness for.
The Curb. Find the nearest one and dump this tool off at it.
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