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26-29,
*ikayla5170
writes:I've met this guy a few months, he's really sweet, caring and a respectful gentleman. I really like his personality and he treats me with respect, although I act cold with him, he still treat me in a nice way. I'm not the type of a person who treats people with total love and affection or either opening up. I've never been an easy girl or acted like one with him, I always talk wisely and formal in order to test his intentions, and he still act nice to me although I'm really cold with him. He had always been very nice to me, he telis about his feelings and opens up to me whenever he's feeling down. He never ever forced me to open up or push me to say things I don't want to say, but he accepts and respects whatever my answer was. I don't know how to describe him, but he's the man of my dreams. I've heard from people that he's a bad person, and I asked them the reason why, and they only answer that "he's sick, he's arrogant, he's a cold heartless person etc..". He asked me to be his homecoming date, and people tell me that he picked me because he had no other girl to pick, which means he is just using me, although I don't feel like so since he had always treated me with respect and since he never pick any random girl to talk to. I don't know what to do, I always tell myself that I shouldn't listen to what other people think, but I'm afraid of the fact that they might be right, and i will end up heartbroken. I need help.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 April 2016):
 It is up to you to make your own decisions not anybody else. He has done nothing wrong to you and you like him therefore why not give him a chance and see how things go.
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reader, EFM94 +, writes (29 April 2016):
 Don't let what other people say cloud your judgement of someone. Allow to see for yourself.With the way you're describing him he doesn't sound like a bad person to me. In this life we meet people that not everyone close to us is fond of. The only worry I would have is if I started seeing warning signs for myself. People may try to warn you but are they being a bit too hard on this guy? Everyone deserves a shot at happiness. At the end of the day you can't say you haven't tried. If he does end up being the person everyone warned you about then you'll know next time to be a little more aware. What has this guy done so wrong for people not to like him? Is it a personal issues? Or is it just a problem on their behalf?You have to learn to make your own mistakes in life. Also this guy could end up being an amazing boyfriend. Sounds like people need to give him more of a chance.
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