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Is he trying to make me jealous using facebook? Why?

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Question - (21 August 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok this is really really Weird. This guy I have a major crush on tagged me in a picture on Facebook. The picture was of him, his friend and two girls! None of these people were tagged in the picture,he only said "just having fun right now" and tagged my name. Then he started posting about how he wants to talk to a girl so bad, how pretty she is and that she wont give him a chance,but he wouldnt mention a name of this girl. So i asked why i was tagged in the picture and he said he has NO IDEA how my name got there, and then switches the subject and asks what i am doing. Then he asked me to come over and hang out,which i made up an excuse i was busy.Then he says he is going to bed. He never mentioned he had company over.

I think that he did this on purpose because I have been ignoring his messages for 2 days. I did that because a few nights ago he made plans with me and never showed up.

It gets even more weird.I did some researching and he has this exact photo on his instagram,but he posted it about 9 months ago. Im so confused. What does this mean? I dont understand why he would lie about a picture from 9 months ago to make it seem like he was with some girls tonight when he wasnt.

Could it be too make me jealous because he has feelings for me?? Im confused because we arent even dating yet for him to be trying to make me jealous! We are just hanging out as friends right now.We have flirted.Im sure he knows i have a crush on him but Ive never admitted it. What is his motive by telling these lies??

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A female reader, llifton United States +, writes (23 August 2013):

llifton agony auntIt means he's an immature idiot who intentionally tagged you in an obvious and horrible pathetic attempt to make you jealous. I can't believe he tried to play it off by saying he didn't know how you wound up tagged. So lame. Just ignore him. He's a loser and needs to grow up.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (21 August 2013):

Honeypie agony auntHe is playing games... Kind of like how us girls are told when we are young that if a boy pulls our hair he likes us.

I'd ignore it. Games belong on the playground.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (21 August 2013):

N91 agony auntYeah, sounds like he's trying to get your attention.

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (21 August 2013):

largentsgirl89 agony auntOr he could be vying for your attention and didn't know how else to get it. You were ignoring him and he wants you to pay attention him and you weren't giving him that attention.

I'm sure wants to be more than just friends and doesn't know how to tell you.

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