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hushhush
writes: ok end of story now, after getting back together with my 13 yrs younger bf as an open relationship 2months ago, he decided to break up again coz he has no faith that he would be happy even if we might work out and he would not feel we are the same generation in how i look and what we do together.so now no more open relationship. he wants to remain friends, but i cant see him coz too much feelings..i think he is too young to understand love? he is 20 only..he said i would be happier with another bf in the future than with him, that was true and it hurts to hear. i miss him and hope him coming back, but im losing confidence. i now begin to doubt if he really loves me?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (1 November 2007):
 You're welcome hunni :)
Glad to have helped :D
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reader, hushhush +, writes (1 November 2007):
hushhush is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMany thanks to all your guys answer, they really help me to sort things and doubt out of my head..
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (1 November 2007):
 Hello
I now that you should not put yourself down, it is not your fault that the relationship has not lasted, i have always believed and know from my younger days, that at 20 you really dont know or understand what love really is, love is not a thing that can be taught to someone, it is a beautiful emotion that is gained by living your life to the full, and at 20 you have just started on that journey, he does love you in his own way, but your love is more intense because you have matured more than he as at this stage in his life, you need to go out and find that person who has the same amount of love and passion that you yourself have gained over time, then you will enjoy life to the full.
Hope this will help you.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (1 November 2007):
He probably does love you but he cant keep getting back with you, then dropping you no matter what his age. You need to cut ties and get your head sorted out. Maybe in the future you two can be mates, but right now as you said there are too many feelings and you need time to work through them.
Ask him to leave you alone for now while you get over this. And don't take him right back if he comes sniffing round you again. All the love in the world he may have for you isn't going to stop the tearing of your heart in to shreds if he decides he doesn't want to be with you again.
He needs to live his life and you need to live yours without waiting round for him, or waiting for him to dump you again. Don't sit round and wait for him! This will seriously drive you round the bend and make you a nervous wreck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): I dont believe age causes a problem unless you let it i feel that he is making excuses in why he shouldnt be with you, but because he is only 20 I doubt he even knows what love is anyway, i say forget him there are plenty of good men out there,
Its his loss!!
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