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writes: hi i really hope you answer this? i'm getting mixed messages from a guy i really like, sometimes he texts me and he seems interested? at school he doesn't talk to me... he told me he fancys me on MSN? and later on, at a party we kissed... nothing happened after that and i havn't heard from him for 4 weeks.... all my friends are telling me the kiss was just a bet... but he told me not to listen? what could be going on...is he playing games with me? or is he too young for a relationship? please help! thank you for taking a few minutes to read this!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006): The best way to find out how somebody feels is ask them. If you're too nervous to ask him straight out to his face, then text him, IM him or write him a letter. Explain that your confused and you need answers. Ask him if the kiss meant anything to him at all and if he meant it when he said he fancied you. You may be getting mixed messages because he's shy or unsure of your feelings. Butif he starts to dither or chooses not to respond to you, then you can assume he isn't interested, or maybe just too immature. But ask him and find out, then you will only know!
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reader, shortandsweet408 +, writes (2 January 2006):
 Well you didn't give any explanation as to how old he is. Seems you two are in middle or high school. Guys this age are usually into exploring. Its all a learning experience. Don't let him fool with you, why not just ask him whats goin on. Talk to him again on MSN - although I remember when I used to chat on messenger, that you can't tell the truth from a bunch of crap on there. Just figure out a way to ask if you see him again, and if not - You will have plenty of boys in the near future to have a good time with - without the questions! Good Luck!
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