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Is he serious this time?

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Question - (24 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Sorry guys I'm the girl that was asking if my ex is regretting things, he said he has been a bad dad and a bad husband, I forgot to add, he will explain to me where he is going, what he is doing etc (like when your in a truthful relationship, when your partner trys to put your mind at ease and reassure you).

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007):

You are making like a whole "romance" out of nothing. What might just be like small talk. I think you have to just accept the fact that you don't know how he feels. And take that to mean that he feels NOTHING.

The day that he says, "I can't stop thinking of you." OR "I love you." OR anything to that extent, then you have something SUBSTANTIAL by which to ask if he is serious or not.

Has he asked you out to dinner? Has he invited you to join him for something? Does he call you often just to chat and try to get to know you better?

Cause that is how guys act when they like you and are thinking of pursuing you. So if he hasn't done any of the above, then face the reality. He is nice. He is cordial. HE is friendly. But nothing more. He is not interested.

Life is constantly changing. So should he change, and should the day come when he asks you out or any of the above, then you can worry about him liking you. Until then, just accept that there is nothing more.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (24 August 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntWell you could ask him why he tells you this stuff since he's the one that walked. I mean it does sound weird that he would be telling you where he's going and what he's doing.

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