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Is he really willling to wait for sex?

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Question - (15 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been dating a guy for a month now. We fancied each other before he had the courage to ask me out. I have spent weekends with him and we seem to get on. Within a fortnight, he asked me to be his girlfriend. He has just asked me to meet some of his family, as his parents live separately. We have cuddled and kissed a lot. He has treated me, we have enjoyed each other's company and we miss each other when we're apart. Problem is I don't feel ready for sex but he says he is happy to wait. We are both interested in a serious relationship Are things happening too soon? Does he really means what he says when he said he is willing to wait til I am ready for sex? Please help.

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A female reader, Lexie88 Australia +, writes (16 July 2010):

Lexie88 agony auntWhat does your gut instinct tell you? It's usually right.

He could be genuine and is willing to wait. Mt BF waited and was ok with it. When I asked why he was ok to wait he said that his relationship with me is more important than sex.

So this could be a good guy. Trust your instincts, take your time and only do what you're comfortable with. In time you'll find out if he's genuine.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2010):

If he said it, hopefully he means it. To be fair, if he was just out to use you, I don't think he would have asked you to meet family, and I don't think he would happy to wait. I think so long as you continue to get to know each other and such, you'll be fine.

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