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Is he really cheating on me or am I being paranoid?

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Question - (6 February 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2007)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i need help, my husband has recently started hiding things from me, he lies when i ask him questions on where he's been and i have found a girls telephone number on his mobile. when i confront him about her he says they are work collegues. my husband works away and is based in scotland, he is in he navy. we have been married 8 yrs, what do you think of him inviting her back to his room to listen to music???

Do you think i am over reacting? He says that there is nothing in it and she is only a friend from work!

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A female reader, asheyjader United States +, writes (7 February 2007):

I understand that there are children, but you also have to consider that IF he is then what is that doing to the way your feel and how you all interact as a FAMILY. The best thing to do is to fallow your heart. It might take alot to leave but be strong, but make sure that this IS what you want and that he IS cheating, other wise you WILL be misrable.

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A female reader, mel_22 United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2007):

mel_22 agony auntI would definately feel inclined to make a call to this number or get him to ring her, if he refuses then maybe that could be a sign of a guilty concience. If she is simply a work colleague then he will have no problem in calling her it wouldnt be anything out of the blue just to give a wrk mate a call. Would it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007):

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thankyou for reply unfortunatley there are children involved inthis marriage,i wish i could just get up and move out....but to where?

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A female reader, asheyjader United States +, writes (6 February 2007):

I know if my husband was hanging out with a women like that then i would go nuts. Its wrong for him to invite a women to his room for ANYTHING! ! You need to tell him how you feel/ or you need to check out his stories and if he is lying catch him in a FINAL act and then leave him.

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