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writes:Well... I'm dating a guy who is 9 years older then me. We are going out for about 10 months now. He had never been in love before I'm his first love and I only had 1 boyfriend before him, but I wasn't in love. Now my parents are giving me trouble - telling me that it will never work, not letting me go everywhere with him, telling me that there is something wrong with him because he is not going out with someone his own age, telling me that its not normal for a guy 27 years old to still be a virgin. His friend are telling the same to him obout me. I need some help. I don't know what to do, I don't know what to tell my parents to make them understand me, they don't even wanna meat him. It's really making my heart sore. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Ravenxx91  + ♥, writes (28 October 2009):
 I would tell everyone that the case of his virginity is no one elses business and encourage everyone to just be happy for me x
I think its a good thing he has saved himself!
Ignore otheres sweetie x
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reader, CaringGuy + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
No, you're not weak. You're just being misunderstood. Just keep taking it slow, and keep on reassuring your parents that you love them, but that you have to live your own life and make your own decisions.
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reader, Anonymous_NF + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
Anonymous_NF is verified as being by the original poster of the question CaringGuy, thanks for the advice. We do take it slow. Every time I try to speak to my parents I burst out in tears, I guess I'm weak. I don't know the right words to tell them so that they can understand me. They don't look at the positive stuff my boyfriend has, they just look at the age differents. He truly loves me and he proves that to me every day.
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reader, Markingbad +, writes (25 October 2009):
 Yes. The course of true love never runs true. But what is your question ?
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reader, CaringGuy + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
There's nothing wrong with him if he's saved his virginity for the right girl. I think your parents are being a little overprotective. Tell them that you will take the relationship slowly, and really get to know him so you know what he's like. Don't just let your parents control you, you need to be able to make your own decisions. But just go slow with this guy to make sure he means what he says.
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