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writes:hi. i quit smoking 9days ago and my boyfreind quit 4 days ago. i handled it quite well. but my boyfreind is not doing well at all he is being so moody, we went to Wales was meant to be for 5 days but we only went for 2 days because he wanted to come home so we did, and last night when he dropped me home he said he needs time to him self and theres a few things he doesnt like about me like i never give him a straight answer instead i say its up to you. weve been together 16 months and we are kind of on a break but its confuseing because i dont know weather hes ending it? or weather its because his quit? what do you think?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2006): Oh lord.
I've quit smoking before. It FREAKIN' sucks. I lashed out at people. Quitting cold turkey isn't a picnic, so eventually I started weening myself off of it.
3 cigarettes a day for a week.
then 2.
then 1.
Then 1 every other day.
(and so on and so forth)
Still, moodiness is normal. Nicotine is super addictive and it can make you really edgy when you're trying to let it go.
Good job quitting smoking!! Let him cool down for a day or two, get used to the withdrawl.
Good luck!
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (19 October 2006):
 Oh honey I feel you. My boyfriend tried to stop drinking and smoking for two days and he snapped to the point where I told him not to talk to me. I believe it is because he quit smoking, try to do something to help him take his mind off the fact that he is not smoking. He probably iks thinking about it often. Good luck
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