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Is he just being friendly, or is he hoping to meet up as friend (or more?)

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Question - (14 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I was seeing a guy for 5 months but he called it off as his was starting to really like me, which is a problem as I'm going traveling for a year in October. I totally understood so I never told him that I liked him too. This was 2 months ago and I still think about him all the time. I realize that I made a mistake by not fighting for him but I’ve accepted that and even went on a date last week.

I haven’t spoken to him for 6 weeks now but he sent me a message out of the blue on Facebook yesterday saying ‘hope I’m well’ etc. I don’t know how to take it. Is he just being friendly, or is he hoping to meet up as friend (or more?)

I feel like telling him how I feel before I go away or should I just leave it and accept that I missed my chance?

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man + , writes (14 June 2007):

bubbloo24 agony auntTell him how you feel. What have you got to lose? you're going away for a year so if he rejects you, you have a year away from him to get over him. If he accepts it all then go along with it and see how it goes.

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A female reader, flower girl United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2007):

flower girl agony auntI think you should bite the bullet and just tell him how you feel what have you got to loose you are going away soon and he realises this you might well regret it if you say nothing and that could spoil the time you have away wondering all the time what if at least if you say something you will know either way.,

Take care.xx.

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