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writes:Here's the deal. I met a guy down here in texas because he we was here for work. Long story short we hung out all the time and he added me and my best friend on fb. After he left he told her that he really likes me, not to let me lose interest and that he was going to tell me he likes me. That didnt happen for 1, he simply flirts. He tells me he's never met a woman like me but will ignore my text back for an entire day all the while i can see him commenting on my best friends funny posts. The last thing is, him and her picked a bday gift for me out (a week before my birthday, the 19th) and the day after he says he wishes it would be there on time. Here it is 12 days later and still nothing in the mail. Is the man just a habitual liar...I feel like he's toying with me, help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2018): Do yourself a favor! Read your post to yourself out-loud.
Sometimes you have to step outside the situation to see it for what it is. He's playing you two against each other; deciding which he likes the better. Maybe he'll get to boink both of you, and be on his way.
Instead of calling people liars, stop wasting your time! Why do you need advice on what to do? You're a grown-woman!
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reader, Rhinocerous +, writes (31 October 2018):
 Yes, he is playing you. You already know that but don't want to accept it. Hanging out with you while he's away from home is fun, but don't expect anything more to come of it.
P.S.: I wouldn't bet against Honeypie on this...
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reader, N91  +, writes (31 October 2018):
 Waste of time, block him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2018): You wouldn't feel as if he was toying with you if he wasn't. Pure selfishness on his part. He hasn't got anything to offer you really, but seems to want to keep you dangling, probably for some entertainment, or to make him feel good about himself.
Don't be his little plaything. Cut any contact and forget all about him. He does not sound as if he is a nice guy or would be able to make you the slightest bit happy judging by his behaviour up to now.
Forget him and move on. Doesn't sound like you're going to miss much.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (31 October 2018):
 CUT him off.
He is toying with you, and he IS preventing you from going out there and finding a guy who will treat you right, with respect and care. Not just put you on a shelf and dust you off when it SUITS him.
Wanna bet he has a girl back home?
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